As someone who’s been in the trenches of ministry for over four decades, I’ve seen firsthand the vital role small groups play in building community and nurturing spiritual growth.
But let’s face it – small group ministries often face challenges that can hinder their effectiveness.
Today, I want to share four fail-proof tactics that will boost the power of your small groups and help you overcome common hurdles.
These strategies are born from years of pastoral experience, countless conversations with church leaders worldwide, and my work as a church consultant.
So, let’s dive in and explore how you can transform your small group ministry.
1. Appoint Pastoral Care Workers in Each Group
One of the most effective ways to strengthen your small groups is by appointing dedicated pastoral care workers.
Here’s why this tactic is a game-changer:
- Spreads the load: Instead of relying solely on the group leader for pastoral care, you create a team of caregivers.
- Enhances community: People come for content, but they stay for community. Pastoral care workers help foster deeper connections.
- Improves follow-up: With multiple people engaged in care, fewer members will fall through the cracks.
- Develops ministry: This approach empowers more people to use their gifts in serving others.
Action step: Identify 2-3 individuals in each group with a heart for pastoral care. Look for people who are naturally empathetic, good listeners, and passionate about helping others. Train them in basic care skills and empower them to support group members.
Remember, the goal isn’t to create mini-counselors but to build a network of care within your small groups.
This approach can significantly reduce the burden on your pastoral staff while creating a more nurturing environment for group members.

2. Use Your Best Small Group Leaders as Coaches
Leveraging your top-performing small group leaders as coaches is a brilliant way to elevate the overall quality of your groups.
Here’s how it works:
- Identify thriving groups and their leaders
- Ask these leaders to coach other small group leaders
- Have them observe other groups and provide feedback
The benefits of this approach are multifaceted:
- Good leaders become great leaders by sharing their expertise
- Struggling leaders receive practical, peer-to-peer support
- It creates a culture of continuous improvement and learning
- The overall quality of small groups increases across the board
This tactic also reduces the burden on pastors, as leadership development becomes more distributed and organic.
It’s a win-win situation that fosters growth and excellence in your small group ministry.
When implementing this strategy, be sure to provide some basic coaching training to your best leaders.
They may be great at leading groups, but coaching requires a slightly different skill set. Equip them with tools to give constructive feedback and ask powerful questions that will help other leaders grow.
3. Appoint a Communications Person in Each Group
In our digital age, effective communication is crucial for small group success. Appointing a dedicated communications person can:
- Improve attendance through timely reminders
- Foster ongoing engagement between meetings
- Facilitate prayer requests and support
- Reinforce group discussions and commitments
- Create a sense of continuity and connection throughout the week
Encourage your comms person to use tools like WhatsApp or Facebook Messenger to keep the group connected.
They might send out meeting reminders, share prayer requests, post encouraging scriptures, or follow up on action steps from the previous meeting.
However, it’s important to strike a balance. While regular communication is beneficial, you don’t want to overwhelm group members with too many messages.
Work with your comms people to establish guidelines that keep everyone informed without becoming intrusive.
4. Pastors, Run an Emerging Leaders Small Group
This tactic is specifically for pastors, but it’s so powerful that church members should consider sharing it with their church leadership.
As a pastor, running a small group for emerging leaders can:
- Model the importance of small groups to your congregation
- Provide a platform for leadership development
- Create a space for deeper relationships with potential future leaders
- Keep you connected to the small group experience
- Offer insights into the challenges and opportunities within your small group ministry
I call this an “Emerging Leaders Group.”
It’s a focused small group that meets every 2-4 weeks for about 90 minutes. You can structure it as a book club, leadership discussion group, or mentoring circle.
Pastors like Ps Blake Moore in Tasmania love it when they discover the power of this style of group. He raved to me about the benefits of his emerging leaders’ group.
It’s a fantastic way to invest in the next generation of leaders while staying grounded in the small group experience.
When running an Emerging Leaders Group, consider these tips:
- Keep the group size manageable (6-10 people)
- Choose participants carefully, looking for those with leadership potential
- Set clear expectations for participation and commitment
- Use a mix of prayer, discussion, and practical application
- Encourage participants to implement what they’re learning in their areas of ministry
Your Next Step: Take Action Today
- If you’re a pastor, read my step-by-step guide on setting up an Emerging Leaders Group.
- If you’re not a pastor, read the guide anyway and share it with your church leadership.
What do you think about these tactics?
Small groups are the heartbeat of a thriving church community.
By implementing these tactics, you’ll be well on your way to overcoming challenges and creating a vibrant, connected congregation.
Why not choose one of these tactics to implement in the next 30 days? Start small, but start now.
Have you ever tried any of them in your church?
I’d love to hear your thoughts.
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